Seemliness
Excite me with your excellent etiquette
Exhibiting mindfulness and adhering to these agreements helps ensure we have an enjoyable encounter.
Screening
These verification methods are standard. I've provided a variety of ways you can complete screening to accommodate different preferences and needs. It is in your best interest to be forthcoming and honest when submitting your screening details. I am only able to see you if I can adequately screen you. To arrange a date, please submit one of these verification options:
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Number
Date of birth
Full legal name
Company or employer’s name
Either 1) a profile with your photo on your company website
Or 2) a blank email from your work account
Or 3) LinkedIn with 100+ connections AND Facebook and/or Instagram
Deposit requirement: 10-30%
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Number
Date of birth
Full legal name
Government issued ID
Company or employer’s name
This process is much more time consuming, so I may ask for a nominal, non-refundable fee.
Deposit requirement: 30%
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Name
Number
Three or more recent references
At my discretion, I may accept references in lieu of identity verification.
Deposit requirement: 60%
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Name
Number
Direct message via Preferred 411
At my discretion, I may accept P411 okays in lieu of identity verification
Deposit requirement: 30-60%
Etiquette
When inquiring with me, be sure to use respectful language and keep your correspondence concise. Regarding kink experiences, if you’d like to share your wishes beforehand, I can offer consultation once verification is complete and our encounter is confirmed. Booking an encounter with me is not an invitation to sext, send lengthy erotic emails, or contact me excessively. Throughout the process of reaching out to me until we meet, expect that we'll exchange a few messages. With a Dinner Date, Out on the Town, or All Day encounter, we may correspond a touch more to discuss where we'll dine or what social activities we'll engage in.
Approximately 24 to 48 hours before our encounter, I'll reach out to share the general location of where I'll be staying. After I check into my hotel, I'll send the exact address. At the outset of our encounter, present my investment and place it on the dresser, then excuse yourself to freshen up in the bathroom. If we’re meeting in public, you can place my investment in a book or a greeting card.
References
If we're well acquainted, I'm happy to serve as a reference for you for up to 90 days. If you're a new friend, I'll provide a reference for up to 45 days and only after meeting you a couple or few times. Please inquire with me beforehand if you'd like me to be a reference.