Seemliness

Excite me with your excellent etiquette

Exhibiting mindfulness and adhering to these agreements helps ensure we have an enjoyable encounter.

Screening

These verification methods are standard. I've provided a variety of ways you can complete screening to accommodate different preferences. Be forthcoming and honest when submitting your screening details. I am only able to see you if I can adequately screen you. To arrange a date, please submit one of these verification options:

  • Number

    Date of birth

    Full legal name

    Company or employer’s name

    Either 1) a profile with your photo on your company website

    Or 2) a blank email from your work account

    Or 3) LinkedIn with 100+ connections AND Facebook and/or Instagram

    Deposit requirement: 10-30%

  • Number

    Date of birth

    Full legal name

    Government issued ID

    Company or employer’s name

    This process is much more time consuming, so I may ask for a nominal, non-refundable fee.

    Deposit requirement: 30%

  • Name

    Number

    Three or more recent references

    At my discretion, I may accept references in lieu of identity verification.

    Deposit requirement: 60%

  • Name

    Number

    Direct message via Preferred 411

    At my discretion, I may accept P411 okays in lieu of identity verification

    Deposit requirement: 30-60%

Etiquette

Be sure to use respectful language and keep your correspondence concise. Regarding kink experiences, if you’d like to share your wishes beforehand, I can offer consultation once verification is complete and our encounter is confirmed.

Booking an encounter with me is not an invitation to sext, send lengthy erotic emails, or contact me excessively. Throughout the process of reaching out to me until we meet, expect that we'll exchange a few messages. With a Dinner Date or longer extended encounter, we may correspond a touch more to discuss where we'll dine or what social activities we'll engage in.

Approximately 24 to 48 hours before our encounter, I'll reach out to share my general location. At the outset of our encounter, present my investment and place it on the dresser, then excuse yourself to freshen up in the bathroom. If we’re meeting in public, you can place my investment in a book or a greeting card.