Lena’s Lust Notes

Bienvenue! It's my hope that the insights I share in my blog can facilitate us connecting more deeply. You can expect to learn about my interests and passions. 

Though I'm touring infrequently, I'll also share my travel plans here. Additionally, I can more thoroughly examine kink and BDSM themes that are at the forefront of my mind.

Be on the lookout for kinky curiosities and questions interspersed with occasional fantasies..

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Hiatus and Tour Updates + Full Bush Tease

Through late July or early August, I'll be on a hiatus. Once I return, I'm touring to Boston, Providence, Philadelphia & King of Prussia, and Atlanta in August. If you reside in North Carolina, I'm over the moon to announce that Charlotte is now a confirmed stop.

I'm thrilled to be touring more in 2025. What's in store for me this year includes personal plans like reconnecting with friends and engaging in creative projects. Operating beyond my comfort zone of artistic endeavors and diving into new-to-me interests are also on the horizon. Hence, I'll be attending investor events and tech gatherings. It's possible I may even have the opportunity to pursue a certificate. Whether I'm throwing myself into reading technical reports or I'm seeking out information in ways that are more experiential, the pursuit of knowledge is paramount. Depending on how long you've been keeping up with me, you may be aware that I love learning!

I'm anticipating that my next several months will be quite invigorating. To prepare for my travels and navigating at a dynamic pace, I'll be taking a couple weekslong breaks so I can best preserve my wellness. Replenishing my spirit by partaking in rejuvenating excursions will help me to maintain a balance between companionship, my aspirations outside of the demimonde, and caring for myself and my loved ones. Beach and hiking trips throughout New York State as well as an orchard outing are some of what I'll be getting up to in the weeks to come. 

Even if it's just a day or weekend trip, tasty small batch treats and straight from the earth produce at a farm stand or an early evening seventy degree Summer breeze does wonders for the mind and body. I'll let you in on a secret: my jaunts to the Empire State's hills, serene locales, and sacred bodies of water are a jolt to my libido. I highly encourage you to arrange an encounter with me upon my return. I assure you it will be especially exhilarating. Please note: LenaDuvall@protonmail.com is the best email to reach me on since I no longer have access to my previous HirsuteSubmissive account.   

Through late July or early August, I'll be on a hiatus. Once I return, I'm touring to Boston, Providence, Philadelphia & King of Prussia, and Atlanta in August. If you reside in North Carolina, I'm over the moon to announce that along with Atlanta (August 17th to 19th + October 15th to 17th), DC (October 5th to 7th), New Orleans (October 19th to 24th), Houston (October 27th to 31st), and Miami (December 4th to 9th), Charlotte is now a confirmed stop. This means I'm definitely making my way to the Queen City! My exact mid October dates for Charlotte will be provided once pre-screening is complete. 

If you want to be absolutely certain I come to your city, reach out as soon as you can. You'll be rewarded in many regards, including with an advance booking exclusive for Southern and Midwestern cities. I'm gorgeous, warm hearted, and doting. I'm a phenomenal companion for a dinner date or overnight, or a short two or three hour tryst. As a passionate pleasure proponent, I take pride in cultivating a joyful and memorable encounter where you will be left elated.  

Slinking out of the steam-filled bathroom, my skin is glistening. After adorning myself with a luxurious high thread count robe, I make my way over to you. Even just minutes after I emerge from a long relaxing shower, with your attuned sense of smell, you pick up on the scent of my ever so faint pheromones. A switch is flipped. You're feral.. throbbing.. hard. Where will you bury your face first? Will you lick my hairy armpits? Or maybe you'd rather trace your tongue slowly southward. As much as my soft curves entice you, you love the sight of my hairy pussy. You just can't wait to bury your nose in my full bush..

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Gift Giving Guide

If you are a suitor thinking of acquiring a gift for a companion, have fun with the process. Take pride in demonstrating…

A wishlist serves the purpose of clarifying what types of gifts a companion adores. If you choose to purchase a gift from a companion's wishlist, doing so is a thoughtful and welcomed act of care.

On my wishlist, I include various types of gifts. Of course I love receiving luxury gifts. Still, the simplest pleasures like tea or household items are greatly appreciated.

Being Caribbean, I'm pleased when I receive a treat that shows that someone payed attention to my heritage or took the time to research rare or high quality gifts from that region. I've received delectable single origin chocolate from Grenada, elite Blue Mountain coffee, and fine rum from various countries I was blessed to savor.       

If you are a suitor thinking of acquiring a gift for a companion, have fun with the process. Take pride in demonstrating your level of consideration. The energy and intention you invest will be felt. 

Years ago, a sweet gentleman gifted me eucalyptus and spearmint bath salts and tools for hurricane preparedness. Aromatherapy is immensely soothing for me, so I'm always thankful for divinely scented bath and body products or candles. The included items were especially memorable for additional reasons. 

At the time, I was a New Orleans transplant. Lifelong Louisiana locals are oftentimes more acutely aware of what supplies are needed to weather a storm. So I was touched by him valuing my safety and getting me a gift that prompted me to think more thoroughly about what else I needed to do or acquire to prepare for a possible storm. 

When searching for and selecting a gift, think about your sweetheart. When she receives a notification about your wishlist purchase or you hand her her gift, imagine her reaction. What feelings do you want your gift to evoke? It could be a utilitarian gift that provides a sense of protection or fills an ongoing need. On the other hand, the gift you have in mind may be lavish and meant to stir up feelings of opulence or usher in softness. Whatever you decide on, trust that it will be received in the spirit in which you give it.

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Carving Out Space for Aftercare

Our playdate duration, whether you host me or come to mine, and various other factors can determine what aftercare looks like. Even if you are dominant or topping in a BDSM dynamic, it's helpful to remember to tend to your emotional needs after a kinky session.

Domination and submission are to a great extent about physicality and tangible senses. Take fisting for example. You don nitrile gloves and lube up your hands. First your fingers, then your knuckles slowly slip in until you're awestruck at the sight of being wrist deep in me. You slide in and out. In turn, you're met with me firmly clenching and utterly mesmerized. You find my G-spot and I start squirting profusely, ultimately drenching you.

With wax play, you're gratified to see me wince in anticipation of the sweet pain from the candle wax dripping on my bare breasts. You torment me as you feign attempts at pouring out the wax. When you finally do, I let out a moan. You reflect on the contrast of the vividly colored candle wax against my skin as it drips down to my huge hard nipples. You feel powerful and at the same time honored that I've bestowed you with such a tremendous amount of trust. 

Yes, BDSM play is about a feast for your eyes and all that you can hear, touch, taste, and smell. There is also an exchange of energy. We co-create a space of heightened sensuality where the interplay of power and the allure of taking command or giving up control impacts us deeply. The ecstatic emotions that are elicited while in the midst of such a delicate dance can feel all consuming. What arises when the intensified excitement subdues after a kinky session?

The analogy of the rollercoaster is relevant. Just as you go up, you must come back down. Sometimes complex thoughts can emerge while in the liminal space between high-spirited carnal exploration and returning to one's daily affairs beyond the boudoir. If you've embodied the role of a dominant, it's helpful for you to be aware of potential changes in mood you might experience.

I've touched on why I require a two hour or longer reservation as a prerequisite for fulfilling your fantasies as your kinky girlfriend. There are various instances, such as impact play and rope bondage, where ample moments to adequately warm up or ease into our experiences is of the utmost importance. From my perspective as a submissive, I can prioritize the ways in which I expect my safety to be regarded. For you, when you're dominating me, you can be assured that we're cultivating trust so we can communicate clearly about our desires and our limits. 

Even if it is the case that you're giving rather than receiving impact, pain, or watersports, I suggest you tune in to your emotions, and think about what's coming up for you and what you might want or need to feel nurtured as a date winds down. Just as we pay attention to our preparations for our kinky play early on in our encounter, it is also important that we take aftercare into consideration. 

Our playdate duration, whether you host me or come to mine, and various other factors can determine what aftercare looks like. During an extended encounter, we might have dessert (our BDSM playtime!) before we go out to get dinner. Dining after instead of before playing is an option that is up to you. Doing so allows us a leisurely segue before we part ways and transition back to the reality of the vanilla realm. As an alternative to us going out to a restaurant, we can order a nourishing meal to be delivered. When we dine en suite in my hotel room, would you prefer I change back into my dress, or wear a cozy robe? ;) 

For a three or two hour tryst, aftercare can look like cuddles and soft kisses in bed. With your permission, I may lightly massage you from head to toe. A warm steamy sensual shower might be in order. And even seemingly small things like remembering to hydrate, and drinking water, herbal tea, or a natural beverage with electrolytes are simple acts that can be replenishing.

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2025 Travel Itinerary

Peruse my tour schedule and reach out in advance so we can plan our breathtaking escape. I'll be traveling to Philadelphia, Boston, Chicago, Washington DC, Atlanta, New Orleans, and Houston. We can share our reflections over a delicious dinner, unwind in a sensuous suite, and...

Have you longed for me to return to your city so we could reconnect? Or maybe in the past you missed out on meeting me. Luckily, you’ll have another chance to convene with me in the upcoming months! Later this year, especially in Autumn, I'll be touring extensively. There are even a few places I haven't previously visited which I'm looking forward to exploring.

Due to my desire to pursue professional development opportunities, I'll be attending conferences in August, September, and October. As a result, I will be touring to select cities where these conferences will be hosted, or other cities that are en route. I'm looking forward to immersing myself in contexts where my creativity can thrive and I'll get to learn and hone my skills. 

Listening to insights from innovators, artists, and founders I've always admired will certainly keep me busy. Still, I'll dedicate some moments for delving into debaucherous delights. Do you envision a raucous romp where we revel in each other's embrace and make memories we cherish dearly? We can share our reflections over a delicious dinner, unwind in a sensuous suite, and get lost in our own world for the evening. Be sure to peruse my schedule and reach out well in advance so we can plan our breathtaking escape.

Before Summer commences, I'm heading to Philadelphia in mid June for a personal trip, then Boston. Afterwards, I'm taking a several week hiatus through early August. Once I'm back from my break, I'm going to a networking session in Massachusetts, then a business conference in Atlanta. In Autumn, I'm going to a tremendous tech conference and some smaller convenings. Along the way, I'll be returning to Chicago, DC, Atlanta, Birmingham, New Orleans, and Houston. And I might make tentative trips to Charlotte and Cincinnati. Lastly, in December I'll be doing it up for my birthday season and treating myself to a trip to Art Basel in Miami. It's my hope to also visit Savannah which is one of my wish list cities! 

This comprehensive list includes confirmed tours which are bolded and tentative tours which are italicized. For certain cities, there is also a higher minimum booking requirement. Reach out soon and seize your chance to manifest your deepest desires. To further inspire you to prebook, in the near future I'll be posting incentives for select locations on my "Exclusives" page.        

Philadelphia, PA June 15—17

Boston, MA June 18—20 

HIATUS June 21 to August 8

Boston, MA August 11—12

Providence, RI August 12—13

Philadelphia, PA August 15—16

Atlanta, GA August 17—19

*Cincinnati, OH late September

Chicago, IL October 1—3 

Washington DC October 5—7

*Charlotte, NC mid October

Atlanta, GA October 15—17

Birmingham, AL October 17—18

New Orleans, LA October 19—24

Houston, TX October 27—31

**Charleston, SC early December

**Savannah, GA early December

*Jacksonville, FL early December

Miami, FL December 4—9 

HIATUS December 21 to January 11

*1.5 hour minimum

**3 hour minimum

Do you dream of tracing your fingers up the slit of my dress and savoring the feel of my soft skin? My warmth melts your heart. My sweet scent permeates the air. You delight in slowly seducing me out of my dress. As I get wetter, you salivate more and more. Get in touch and make me yours...

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Boston Dates, Bluesky & More

In addition to connecting with me in-person either in New York City, meeting me in Boston or the select cities I occasionally tour, or booking a Train-Me-To-You, soon you'll also have the pleasure of seeing more of my salacious side virtually.

On the horizon 

Since moving back from New Orleans, I've readjusted to the hustle and bustle of big city living. In New York, world renowned cultural institutions or cuisines from all continents can seemingly be found on every corner. If you've lived in or spent considerable time here, you understand full well the hold New York City has on its residents and admirers. As fulfilled as I am reviling in the enriching experiences that abound in New York City, I hope to travel more in the future.

When wanderlust overcame me in the past, I'd journey to cities like Miami, San Francisco, Chicago, Dallas, or San Antonio. Though I'm touring less than I have in previous years, there are cities I truly adore and others I've always dreamed of seeing. You may be aware that I've toured Boston dozens of times. From fascinating historical landmarks to breathtaking harbor views, Boston always lures me back. I'm Boston bound again and I'm brimming with joy at the thought of what all I'll get up to! Next month, from Monday March 10th through Wednesday the 12th, I'll be staying near Downtown Boston. Reserve a romp with me by the 5th. 

New review

Depending on who you ask, you'll receive vastly different responses about the relevance of escort review boards. Over the years, my level of engagement on such websites has fluctuated. When I do utilize them, my main goal is posting adverts. Usually there are also BDSM specific discussion forums where I can pose questions to and hear perspectives from other companions about a variety of kinky topics. If you are a member of The Erotic Review, you can read my review which was recently posted. 

More updates

I made a Bluesky account and I'll be more active on there. Compared to other social media platforms, I really enjoy the user experience. Most importantly, it's okay to be a sex worker on there and there are less punitive policies compared to Twitter and Instagram. Based on what I've seen, the sex worker, BDSM, and NSFW communities on Bluesky are affirming. If you're on there too, feel free to follow me to read about my life happenings and to see my cute selfies.

In addition to connecting with me in-person either in New York City, meeting me in Boston or the select cities I occasionally tour, or booking a Train-Me-To-You, soon you'll also have the pleasure of seeing more of my salacious side virtually. To better ensure we can create space to delve deeply into whatever delights you, I will be offering phone and texting packages. I'll also have racy photos and videos available for your viewing pleasure on a few sites. This Spring, I'll be launching accounts on Loyal Fans, Fansly, and potentially SextPanther.

For my foray back into making X-rated content, there are some considerations I have to keep in mind since I'm no longer face-out. I want to be exceedingly transparent about what kind of content you might expect from me and what you definitely won't find. Filming with other companions and models requires a precise level of coordination. Usually, there is also an understanding that model releases will be signed so that everyone involved has a right to upload and share collaborative clips. 

At this time, I'd like to keep my amateur porn adventures very casual. Furthermore, since I want to maintain exclusive control over any explicit images I'm featured in, I will solely be focusing on solo content. Me exploring my favorite kinks and profusely squirting are just some of the visions I want impressed in your mind, leaving you salivating for more.. Whether we meet in a five-star suite or connect on FaceTime through a phone screen, I look forward to seeing you!  

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Metropolitan Museum Date

Since you value being a lifelong learner and seizing opportunities to deepen your historical and cultural influences, here's an exhibition you may find to be thought-provoking..

February 2025 has been fascinating and eventful. Despite attempted erasure, February is still Black History Month. I've always been an avid appreciator of history. When I was younger, I'd read ancient Roman, Greek, and Egyptian mythology at length. In history class, I'd intently listen to lessons, especially those about Precolonial Africa or the Early Americas. As often as I can carve out time to wander the halls of museums, I make sure to make the most of every revelatory moment to celebrate the vastness and diversity of human history. Because of my unwavering understanding of the ways in which the past is interconnected with and informs the present, I hold institutions dedicated to archiving and preserving history in high esteem.

Since you also value being a lifelong learner and seizing opportunities to deepen your historical and cultural influences, here's an exhibition you may find to be thought-provoking. Flight into Egypt: Black Artists and Ancient Egypt, 1876-Now is on view at The Metropolitan Museum of Art. On an ongoing basis, tens of thousands of objects from Ancient Egypt can be seen in various galleries at The Met. What intrigues me about Flight Into Egypt is the interpretive lens through which Ancient Egyptian iconography is viewed. Rather than showcasing ancient artifacts, more modern works by Black artists from the late nineteenth century through today are the focus. From the album covers of musicians such as Miles Davis, Erykah Badu, and Alice Coltrane, to paintings by Sam Gilliam and Jean-Michel Basquiat, Flight Into Egypt is an immersive multimedia experience. 

If you get a chance to go, please share your insights with me the next time we convene. Better yet, perhaps we can plan a date to meet at The Met. My penchant for history and art makes me a studious companion to have on your arm as we peruse the exhibition. We can take a reflective walk through the museum, sharing what sparks of imagination emerge for us. After an artistically enriching experience, we can take a jaunt to one of Upper East Side's delectable restaurants. There are also many marvelous piano and jazz bars in Manhattan where we can be serenaded by a songstress before turning in for our sultry nightcap.

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Be Mine: Flirty February Date Ideas

Are you a horror buff who wants to check out independent films? Or do you want to see a scintillating burlesque show starring some of New York City's premier performers? Consider adding these curated cultural events to your calendar. These date ideas would be great for our Out on the Town encounter.

Being in New York affords me ample opportunities to partake in enriching cultural experiences. From an off the beaten path volunteer-run film theater in Williamsburg to a world-renowned venue in NoHo, one can seamlessly traverse through different scenes. For February, I've put together a thoughtfully selected list of art and nightlife events. 

Anti-Valentine's Series at Spectacle

Williamsburg's underground microcinema Spectacle Theater is screening rare and avant-garde films about lust, sadomasochism, betrayal, and the plethora of predicaments people wind up in when their pursuit for love turns tragic. The murderous French thriller Criminal Lovers is a modern nod to lost in the forest while being chased by a scary woodsman fairytales of yore. Criminal Lovers is a cult classic which was an official selection at the Venice Film Festival and the Toronto International Film Festival when it was released in 1999.

David Lynch's Legacy

David Lynch left an indelible mark on American cinema. A few New York City arthouse and independent theaters are commemorating Lynch with screenings of his mind-bending surrealist films. MULHOLLAND DR. is a movie one must see again and again and again. This "love story in the city of dreams" is what made me aware of David Lynch's mastery. Each rewatching leaves me in awe. Luckily, IFC Center has added additional screenings to their previously sold out dates.

Black Burlesque 

Valentine's Day presents an abundance of moments to enjoy erotic experiences. With February also being Black History Month, many curators of nightlife events make sure to foreground Black burlesque artists and erotic workers. There are a few Black-centered burlesque performances I'm considering attending. Out of the exciting array of options, one I highly recommend due to how phenomenal it was last year is Venus Cuff's Valentine's Day event at Joe's Pub. This year's event, "My BDSM Valentine" which is on February 8th, promises to be a night filled with "burlesque, fetish performances, striptease, and so much more." 

Erotic Dance Party 

Picture a night out where there's a perfect melding of a dance party and a kink party. Champagne is flowing, delectable treats whet your appetite, and you're teased and titillated by the sight of rope bunnies bound at a Shibari station, caged beauties, and fierce Femdoms. You can hit the dance floor to show off your moves, and if you're really an exhibitionist, you can show off your finest fetishwear and perhaps play out some of your wildest fantasies. More than just being warmly welcomed, risqué attire like lace or leather is a requirement for entry. And almost anything (besides penetrative acts) goes.. 

I'll keep the details a secret for now. Though I may divulge more about this or similar soirees in a future newsletter. Be sure to sign up below so you can stay in the know. Can't wait to find out later? Come with me so we can see for ourselves and be inspired! As I get ready to meet you, adorn myself in luxurious lace lingerie, put on a pair of sleek four inch stilettos, and conceal my devilish outfit under a coat, I'll be salivating at the thought off all the scandalous things we'll see and do...

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