The Wonders of Squirting

“...making a woman cum in the perfect way to spark something in her where she experiences intense, body pulsating pleasure is an act of service.”

Up until I was around 26, I was unaware about squirting. When I started hearing more, it seemed like such a magical yet elusive experience. Performers in porn films who squirted seemed like they were having a blast. In the years since, I've attended workshops at sex education or kink gatherings and read countless articles. Learning more about squirting, how it happens, and what squirt is or isn't has been interesting. 

The "squirt is pee" debate has raged on for what seems like a decade. Researchers have used ultrasounds and even colored dyed to try to determine where squirting fluid emanates from. Some believe squirting is female ejaculation. Others assert that squirting and female ejaculation are two distinct processes that can occur simultaneously. The fluid released when some people squirt has a composition which includes diluted urea and uric acid. In some cases it's also composed of prostate-specific antigen. The head spinning science about squirting considered, if you're as titillated by squirting as I am, breaking out a beaker to run tests isn't your main priority. I'm not a scientist or a doctor, but I can speak definitively about the facts when it comes to my body.

The first few times I squirted felt like a surprising blessing. It was invigorating being taken aback by what my body could do. As I've grown even more in tune with my body, I've come to more acutely understand what makes me squirt. High powered vibrators on my clit and fisting are sure-fire ways to make me squirt. Similarly as with watersports or anal, levels of preparation enhance the overall experience. Before playtime, I make sure to drink copious amounts of water. Me being well hydrated not only affects if I can piss all over a willing lover, but how much and how easefully I squirt! In addition to drinking lots of water, having lube on hand is ideal when a vibrator is used on me and it's a must with fisting.

What is it about squirting that appeals to you? I have a clue.. The notion that your throbbing cock, your fingers, or your adept use of a vibrator could result in a climactic eruption like a woman squirting all over you, your hands, and your face plays over and over in your mind. You like to be in control, even dominant. Still, making a woman cum in the perfect way to spark something in her where she experiences intense, body pulsating pleasure is an act of service. It's a gift for you both to cherish.

With lust,

~Lena

Creating Space

Since Spring, I've mostly been in New York with a few trips elsewhere on the East Coast as well as a brief visit to Chicago. During my lengthy hiatus, and again during my shorter break early this year, I've carved out space to focus more on the creative pursuits and advocacy I felt called to do within arts, cultural, or non-profit spheres. The opportunities I had to learn and connect with aligned people were invaluable.

In addition to freelancing, I made sure to find moments of ease and prioritize my wellness in the ways I could. Going for long walks has been grounding. The High Line is one of my favorite haunts. When walking up and down the full length, from the Meatpacking District to Midtown, I get to take in Manhattan's phenomenal architecture and public art. When it gets warmer again, I want to venture further north and hike some of the magnificent Hudson Valley trails.

Dancing, sometimes for hours on end, to House and Techno and Cumbia and Reggae has been soul soothing. Movement and music have always brought me back to myself regardless of whatever else might be going on in my life. Speaking of the profoundly restorative power of music, this Summer I had my second chance to see an artist I cherish dearly. Kelela's angelic voice pierces my heart and leaves me more enchanted each time I hear her.

Besides seeing live music, going out dancing, and taking up urban hiking, I've also been cultivating previously held skills. Engaging in architectural and landscape photography has brought me joy. In the future I may post some of my favorite photographs I've captured with my mirrorless camera. For now, here are some cute selfies from one of my extended walks up the Empire State Trail and High Line.

Hugs and kisses,

~Lena

Reintroducing Lena Duvall

I'm back again! After taking a two year hiatus, I started reengaging as a companion in Summer 2023. Then I went on a briefer several months long break earlier this year. You might be wondering what all I've been up to. Or what keeps bringing me back. I promise to delve into that in my revamped blog and shed even more light on my life happenings in the upcoming weeks and months.

First, I'm inclined to share some fun facts about yours truly. I credit my utterly steamy aura with the fact that astrologically, the overwhelming majority of my planets are in fire signs with a couple key ones being in water signs. I'm a Sagittarius sun and my birthday was just last week. I had a delicious birthday dinner with friends at Rolo’s. 

If you'd like to get me something, you still have time as I'm celebrating all month! I made a Marigold wishlist. Marigold seems like a promising new service that is aiming to avoid some of the pitfalls that resulted in Wishtender's problems. They understandably add an additional 10% plus the costs of tax and shipping. If you'd prefer, you can also directly send me a gift card after reaching out and obtaining my alternate unpublished email.

One more turn around the sun has me reflecting on so much. I know it's cliché, but I do feel wiser. And I'll let you in on a secret.. Though I'm a younger looking 30 something—I'm in my late mid thirties to be precise—I've always felt like an old soul. That sentiment is manifesting in some very interesting ways for me in this stage of my life. The sexual renaissance many women are said to have in their forties or fifties is starting to set in for me in this season.

You may already know how ravenously insatiable I was. Over the last few months, I'm even exponentially more so. Unfortunately for me, I'm contending with the Plenty of Fishification of my previously favorite hookup app, Feeld. I'm sure the New Yorker and New Times writeups were very good for Feeld's founders, but the ambiance on there is markedly different than it was when I first started using it in 2021. 

There are some kink clubs in NYC I'm looking forward to exploring in the near future. I've been fixating on fantasies of me being filled up more fully than I've ever experienced. In one fantasy, I'm being fervently fucked while a fascinatingly large butt plug (like the Titus the Pawn XL) is warming my ass up. When I'm ready to be taken from behind, I still need something thrusting in and out of my wet hairy pussy so I reach for a dildo. With my free hand, I turn on my wand vibrator on the highest setting. The mind blowing sensations of double penetration with an electrifyingly powerful vibrator on my clit has me squirting like crazy. If you were fucking me in doggy, do you think you'd feel the vibrator too?

While you ponder the possibilities, please peruse a couple selections from my wishlist. This Edge o' Beyond Charlotte set is so pretty. And I'd be over the moon with the scent of bergamot and sandalwood permeating our room from a Harlem Candle Co. candle. Besides my astrological makeup, a couple more facts about me are that I love the feeling of silk all over my supple skin, and aromatherapy really gets me going.

With lust,

~Lena