Lena’s Lust Notes
Bienvenue! It's my hope that the insights I share in my blog can facilitate us connecting more deeply. You can expect to learn about my interests and passions.
Though I'm touring infrequently, I'll also share my travel plans here. Additionally, I can more thoroughly examine kink and BDSM themes that are at the forefront of my mind.
Be on the lookout for kinky curiosities and questions interspersed with occasional fantasies..
Be Mine: Flirty February Date Ideas
Are you a horror buff who wants to check out independent films? Or do you want to see a scintillating burlesque show starring some of New York City's premier performers? Consider adding these curated cultural events to your calendar. These date ideas would be great for our Out on the Town encounter.
Being in New York affords me ample opportunities to partake in enriching cultural experiences. From an off the beaten path volunteer-run film theater in Williamsburg to a world-renowned venue in NoHo, one can seamlessly traverse through different scenes. For February, I've put together a thoughtfully selected list of art and nightlife events.
Anti-Valentine's Series at Spectacle
Williamsburg's underground microcinema Spectacle Theater is screening rare and avant-garde films about lust, sadomasochism, betrayal, and the plethora of predicaments people wind up in when their pursuit for love turns tragic. The murderous French thriller Criminal Lovers is a modern nod to lost in the forest while being chased by a scary woodsman fairytales of yore. Criminal Lovers is a cult classic which was an official selection at the Venice Film Festival and the Toronto International Film Festival when it was released in 1999.
David Lynch's Legacy
David Lynch left an indelible mark on American cinema. A few New York City arthouse and independent theaters are commemorating Lynch with screenings of his mind-bending surrealist films. MULHOLLAND DR. is a movie one must see again and again and again. This "love story in the city of dreams" is what made me aware of David Lynch's mastery. Each rewatching leaves me in awe. Luckily, IFC Center has added additional screenings to their previously sold out dates.
Black Burlesque
Valentine's Day presents an abundance of moments to enjoy erotic experiences. With February also being Black History Month, many curators of nightlife events make sure to foreground Black burlesque artists and erotic workers. There are a few Black-centered burlesque performances I'm considering attending. Out of the exciting array of options, one I highly recommend due to how phenomenal it was last year is Venus Cuff's Valentine's Day event at Joe's Pub. This year's event, "My BDSM Valentine" which is on February 8th, promises to be a night filled with "burlesque, fetish performances, striptease, and so much more."
Erotic Dance Party
Picture a night out where there's a perfect melding of a dance party and a kink party. Champagne is flowing, delectable treats whet your appetite, and you're teased and titillated by the sight of rope bunnies bound at a Shibari station, caged beauties, and fierce Femdoms. You can hit the dance floor to show off your moves, and if you're really an exhibitionist, you can show off your finest fetishwear and perhaps play out some of your wildest fantasies. More than just being warmly welcomed, risqué attire like lace or leather is a requirement for entry. And almost anything (besides penetrative acts) goes..
I'll keep the details a secret for now. Though I may divulge more about this or similar soirees in a future newsletter. Be sure to sign up below so you can stay in the know. Can't wait to find out later? Come with me so we can see for ourselves and be inspired! As I get ready to meet you, adorn myself in luxurious lace lingerie, put on a pair of sleek four inch stilettos, and conceal my devilish outfit under a coat, I'll be salivating at the thought off all the scandalous things we'll see and do...
Reintroducing Lena Duvall
Though I'm a younger looking 30 something—I'm in my late mid thirties to be precise—I've always felt like an old soul. That sentiment is manifesting in some very interesting ways for me in this stage of my life. You may already know how ravenously insatiable I was. Over the last few months, I'm even exponentially more so..
I'm back again! After taking a two year hiatus, I started reengaging as a companion in Summer 2023. Then I went on a briefer several months long break earlier this year. You might be wondering what all I've been up to. Or what keeps bringing me back. I promise to delve into that in my revamped blog and shed even more light on my life happenings in the upcoming weeks and months.
First, I'm inclined to share some fun facts about yours truly. I credit my utterly steamy aura with the fact that astrologically, the overwhelming majority of my planets are in fire signs with a couple key ones being in water signs. I'm a Sagittarius sun and my birthday was just last week. I had a delicious birthday dinner with friends at Rolo’s.
If you'd like to get me something, you still have time as I'm celebrating all month! I made a Marigold wishlist. Marigold seems like a promising new service that is aiming to avoid some of the pitfalls that resulted in Wishtender's problems. They understandably add an additional 10% plus the costs of tax and shipping. If you'd prefer, you can also directly send me a gift card after reaching out and obtaining my alternate unpublished email.
One more turn around the sun has me reflecting on so much. I know it's cliché, but I do feel wiser. And I'll let you in on a secret.. Though I'm a younger looking 30 something—I'm in my late mid thirties to be precise—I've always felt like an old soul. That sentiment is manifesting in some very interesting ways for me in this stage of my life. The sexual renaissance many women are said to have in their forties or fifties is starting to set in for me in this season.
You may already know how ravenously insatiable I was. Over the last few months, I'm even exponentially more so. Unfortunately for me, I'm contending with the Plenty of Fishification of my previously favorite hookup app, Feeld. I'm sure the New Yorker and New Times writeups were very good for Feeld's founders, but the ambiance on there is markedly different than it was when I first started using it in 2021.
There are some kink clubs in NYC I'm looking forward to exploring in the near future. I've been fixating on fantasies of me being filled up more fully than I've ever experienced. In one fantasy, I'm being fervently fucked while a fascinatingly large butt plug (like the Titus the Pawn XL) is warming my ass up. When I'm ready to be taken from behind, I still need something thrusting in and out of my wet hairy pussy so I reach for a dildo. With my free hand, I turn on my wand vibrator on the highest setting. The mind blowing sensations of double penetration with an electrifyingly powerful vibrator on my clit has me squirting like crazy. If you were fucking me in doggy, do you think you'd feel the vibrator too?
While you ponder the possibilities, please peruse a couple selections from my wishlist. This Edge o' Beyond Charlotte set is so pretty. And I'd be over the moon with the scent of bergamot and sandalwood permeating our room from a Harlem Candle Co. candle. Besides my astrological makeup, a couple more facts about me are that I love the feeling of silk all over my supple skin, and aromatherapy really gets me going.
With lust,
~Lena