Be Mine: Flirty February Date Ideas
Being in New York affords me ample opportunities to partake in enriching cultural experiences. From an off the beaten path volunteer-run film theater in Williamsburg to a world-renowned venue in NoHo, one can seamlessly traverse through different scenes. For February, I've put together a thoughtfully selected list of art and nightlife events.
Anti-Valentine's Series at Spectacle
Williamsburg's underground microcinema Spectacle Theater is screening rare and avant-garde films about lust, sadomasochism, betrayal, and the plethora of predicaments people wind up in when their pursuit for love turns tragic. The murderous French thriller Criminal Lovers is a modern nod to lost in the forest while being chased by a scary woodsman fairytales of yore. Criminal Lovers is a cult classic which was an official selection at the Venice Film Festival and the Toronto International Film Festival when it was released in 1999.
David Lynch's Legacy
David Lynch left an indelible mark on American cinema. A few New York City arthouse and independent theaters are commemorating Lynch with screenings of his mind-bending surrealist films. MULHOLLAND DR. is a movie one must see again and again and again. This "love story in the city of dreams" is what made me aware of David Lynch's mastery. Each rewatching leaves me in awe. Luckily, IFC Center has added additional screenings to their previously sold out dates.
Black Burlesque
Valentine's Day presents an abundance of moments to enjoy erotic experiences. With February also being Black History Month, many curators of nightlife events make sure to foreground Black burlesque artists and erotic workers. There are a few Black-centered burlesque performances I'm considering attending. Out of the exciting array of options, one I highly recommend due to how phenomenal it was last year is Venus Cuff's Valentine's Day event at Joe's Pub. This year's event, "My BDSM Valentine" which is on February 8th, promises to be a night filled with "burlesque, fetish performances, striptease, and so much more."
Erotic Dance Party
Picture a night out where there's a perfect melding of a dance party and a kink party. Champagne is flowing, delectable treats whet your appetite, and you're teased and titillated by the sight of rope bunnies bound at a Shibari station, caged beauties, and fierce Femdoms. You can hit the dance floor to show off your moves, and if you're really an exhibitionist, you can show off your finest fetishwear and perhaps play out some of your wildest fantasies. More than just being warmly welcomed, risqué attire like lace or leather is a requirement for entry. And almost anything (besides penetrative acts) goes..
I'll keep the details a secret for now. Though I may divulge more about this or similar soirees in a future newsletter. Be sure to sign up below so you can stay in the know. Can't wait to find out later? Come with me so we can see for ourselves and be inspired! As I get ready to meet you, adorn myself in luxurious lace lingerie, put on a pair of sleek four inch stilettos, and conceal my devilish outfit under a coat, I'll be salivating at the thought off all the scandalous things we'll see and do...
